( Note: Below is my presentation at the 2024 Interfaith forums, sponsored by the Interfaith Council of Southern Nevada. A video clip is also available below.)
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How Religions can Heal Division and resolve conflict
Moving directly into the topic, we begin with the assertion that healing divisions and resolving conflict are among the very goals of the religion of Islam. Thus, the Qur’an says “ Hold firmly to the rope of God, and be not divided. Moreover, recall God’s blessing to you, you were enemies, then He united your hearts by His blessing and you became a brotherhood. You were on the brink of a pit of fire, He saved you from it. Thus, God clarifies for you His signs, so that perhaps you will be guided.” ( Q 3:103). The Qur’an also states “God calls towards the abode of peace.” (Q 10:25).
There is much more evidence, but the previously mentioned Quranic verses should be sufficient to show that healing and resolving divisions and conflicts are among the imperatives of Islam. In addition, the presence of qualities such as justice, mercy and broad understanding are necessary to resolve any sort of conflict, be it within family, marriage, business or political conflict.
In Islam, we have the Qur’an as scripture, but also the examples of the Prophets in scripture, concluding with Muhammad the global messenger, as sources of information. The Qur’an mentions the story of Joseph, son of Jacob. His brothers-in a jealous rage- had arranged for him to be exiled from the family, and falsely reported him dead to his doting father. Yet, years later, after actually saving them from a famine situation, he shows himself as the party responsible for saving them, generating a recognition of truth, leading to a healing. (Q 12: 88-93).
The Prophet Muhammad, after nearly 11 years of conflict, was able to overcome his enemies, but when he did, in the opening of Makkah, he issued an amnesty which even extended to those who killed and mutilated the body of his beloved uncle (Hamza). For these examples, an awareness of justice, mercy and a broad understanding of the big picture are demonstrated, qualities needed for healing and resolving conflict.
As a religion, there are many ways that healing and resolution occur. Largely, they have to occur within a context of spiritual maturity. Even when that’s missing, there are practical ways in which the religion accomplishes its goals. The Prophet Muhammad taught a method that, when angry, if you are sitting, stand! If you are walking, run! Wash yourself with water, do ablution, offer prayer, i.e. remove yourself from that which is making you angry. The religion has communal prayers, in which the worshipers stand side by side, bowing, prostrating, all together for God, and the ritual prayer itself ending with the worshiper saying to the person next to him (as well as angels, as per our belief) “Peace be on you, and the mercy of God”. This practice has worked in making the foundation needed to solve problems between Muslims.
Practical rules that limit conflict include the prohibition of intoxicants, which, when observed, limits the emotional outbursts which sustain conflicts and divisions. The Qur’an instructs us to be cognizant of our speech and behavior (Q 33:70-71, 4:1), these are real-life guidelines which, when implemented, goes a long way in fixing problems between people. In marriage conflict, the Qur’an (Q 4:35) advocates having an arbiter from the husband and the wife’s side, thus, limiting the scope of public involvement in a private issue, a needed step, as making such problems public makes things more difficult to resolve.
I want to change the practical slightly, to move into the theological. The fact is that Muslims believe in God as being the only being that deserves worship, and we also believe in the Prophets. Broadly speaking, we believe in the Biblical prophets, and we sincerely say “peace be upon them”. This fact should bring more healing between atleast the followers of the three Abrahamic religions because it shows how broad our religious understanding extends. While the three Abrahamic religions have different perspectives on important theological points, we also have similarities which, when acknowledged, can bring forth human respect and sincere understanding.
The Qur’an consistently (Q 29:20, 30:9, etc) tells us to travel in the world, and the Prophet Muhammad’s statement is that getting an education is an obligation on every Muslim (Talabul ‘ilmi fareedatin ‘ala kulli Muslim), such things, travel and education, removes xenophobia, corrects misconceptions and allows people to see others as people, it humanizes those outside of our own comfort zones. These are among the ways Islam addresses the issue of healing division and conflict resolution. Thank you.
